Fighting My Own Demons: How K-pop Demon Hunters Helped Me See My Strength
A reflection on trauma, healing, and the power to reclaim your own story.
FAMILY HISTORYSTORIES TOLD THROUGH ART & PERFORMANCE
Bethany Grace
11/11/20254 min read


The Story That Spoke My Language
The first time I saw K-pop Demon Hunters, I expected a fun escape — bright colors, fierce energy, catchy rhythm.
What I didn’t expect was to feel seen.
Beneath the action and style, I saw something familiar: a world where women carried the weight of everyone else’s survival while battling monsters no one else could see. Their fights weren’t just physical — they were emotional, invisible, relentless. And that hit close to home.
I didn’t have glowing weapons or a stage to perform on. But I had my own kind of battlefield — long days, long expectations, and a quiet war between who I was told to be and who I actually am.
The Demon Within — When the Fight Feels Too Familiar
The “demons” in the movie felt symbolic to me. They weren’t just creatures of darkness — they were shame, exhaustion, anger, grief, and guilt made visible.
The same shadows that creep in when you’ve given too much of yourself to a world that only takes.
For me, those demons showed up in the form of burnout. Of loyalty that turned into self-sacrifice. Of smiling through mistreatment and believing that endurance would earn me peace. I fought for years in a workplace that drained me dry, convincing myself that being dependable was the same as being valued.
But like the girls in the movie, I learned that some battles aren’t meant to be won by staying silent. Some require stepping away entirely — choosing freedom over familiarity, healing over survival.
Sisterhood and Found Family — The Bonds That Save Us
One of the things that struck me most about K-pop Demon Hunters was the way the girls shielded each other — even when the world around them was crumbling, even when their hearts were torn. There was a quiet, undeniable power in their connection — in how they reminded each other of who they were fighting for, even when they couldn't always see the way forward.
It reminded me of the ones who stood by me when everything seemed to fall apart.
My kids, who watched me push through the exhaustion, even when I felt like I had nothing left to give.
The coworkers who whispered, “You deserved better,” their voices soft but filled with truth, like a quiet rebellion against a world that never appreciated me.
The friends who held space for my brokenness, never judging my moments of weakness.
My boyfriend, who never faltered in his faith in me — even when the weight of everything seemed too heavy to carry.
And my sister, still walking that same building, holding the remnants of the life I left behind, yet always reaching back to remind me I wasn’t alone.
These are my demon hunters — the ones who held the sword when I couldn’t, the ones who, without words, told me that strength isn’t about carrying the burden alone. Sometimes, it’s about letting others share the load, and knowing that even in the darkest moments, there is love that lifts us.
The Cost of Power — Losing Yourself to the Fight
There’s a moment in the film when the line between power and destruction blurs. The characters risk losing themselves to the very darkness they’re trying to fight.
That, too, felt familiar.
I know what it’s like to push so hard that you forget who you’re fighting for. To give everything to a job, a relationship, a system that never gives back. I chased approval like it was survival, thinking that if I worked harder, loved harder, tried harder — the world would finally be kind.
But sometimes, power without rest becomes poison.
And walking away isn’t weakness — it’s self-rescue.
Redemption and Rebirth — Becoming My Own Demon Hunter
When I was fired, it felt like failure at first.
But now, I see it differently.
It was my transformation scene — the moment I stopped fighting someone else’s war and started hunting my own demons instead.
The moment I stopped trying to prove my worth and started reclaiming it.
Like the heroines of K-pop Demon Hunters, I learned that survival isn’t just about slaying monsters. It’s about knowing when to lay your weapon down, breathe, and rebuild. It’s about creating a new world where you’re safe — even if you have to build it from the ashes.
Reflection — What It Means to Hunt the Darkness Within
Watching that story reminded me that we all carry battles no one else sees. But healing doesn’t come from pretending we’re fine. It comes from facing the shadows — the memories, fears, and disappointments — and deciding they don’t get to define us anymore.
I may not be part of a K-pop crew, but I’m still a demon hunter in my own right.
I fight for peace, for purpose, for the version of me who finally feels free.
And I’m learning that the bravest thing I can do isn’t to keep swinging — it’s to stand still, feel the light, and know I survived.
Disclaimer: This post is a personal interpretation inspired by the film K-pop Demon Hunters. All characters and story elements belong to their respective creators.
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